Say one day you get your dream job….

and you love it, it’s exciting and you love going to work every day….

..then after 2-3 years in the job you take all those things that you loved for granted and start to pick on the few things that you don’t like to focus on….Do you think this will improve your situation or make your situation worse?

Yeah that’s what I think too…..worse….but that is what I did

Have you ever gone in to a restaurant and there are 2-3 different waiters working there and you get a really good one. He is interested and attentive and human and cares about what he is doing. You can tell those people a mile off. It doesn’t matter what they do for a living, they will always stand out and you feel better for having met them.

This brings me around to what you concentrate on at work or in your job. Are you thinking about how much your contact with other people is affecting them or are you just stuck in the bad feeling that you have and feel like the world owes you a living.

It doesn’t and you get out what you put in.

We all have one of those friends who is always good fun and energetic and a good listener and we feel great when we spend time with them. Why can’t you be that person?